I DONT GIVE BIRTH TO PUPPIES

I DONT GIVE BIRTH TO PUPPIES
Once upon a time, a dog approached an elephant to get into a child bearing competition. In 3 months the dog gave birth to 6 puppies. In the next 3 months the dog gave birth to yet another set of puppies. The elephant finally gave birth after 20 months by which time the dog had given birth to over 30 puppies and was mocking the elephant into believing that it had won the competition. The elephant had a few words for the dog when the baby elephant came out after 20 months. "I can see you had fooled yourself into believing that you had won the competition. I think you can appreciate now that:
1. I don't give birth to puppies
2. When I do give birth, the calf will be ready to face the world on its own
3. The combined weight of your 36 puppies is less than a fifth of my calf's weight
4. The moment my calf steps into this earth it makes an immediate great impact as if no dog was ever born"
Don't let any early leaders in this life chide you into believing that you are a failure, beaten flat out and you have already lost the battle of success. I want you to think like an elephant. Don't envy cheap quick success. For as long as you are in the right place, your chance is coming and by the signs of time it wont be long. You are not that small to give birth to puppies.

The lady Hillary Rodham Clinton

The lady Hillary Rodham Clinton - A graduate of Wellesley College and Yale Law School, Hillary Clinton served on the staff of the House Judiciary Committee considering the impeachment of Richard Nixon. After moving to Arkansas, she ran a legal aid clinic for the poor and was appointed by President Carter to the board of the United States Legal Services Corporation. She led a task force to improve education in Arkansas and served on national boards for the Children's Defense Fund, the Child Care Action Campaign, and the Children's Television Workshop. Continuing her legal career as a partner in a law firm, she led the American Bar Association's Commission on Women in the Profession. She was elected to the U.S. Senate from New York in 2000 and re-elected in 2006. She served on the Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions Committee; the Environment and Public Works Committee; the Special Committee on Aging; and the Senate Armed Services Committee. She also chaired the Senate Democratic Steering and Outreach Committee, responsible for communicating with the public about key issues before Congress. The wife of former President Bill Clinton, she is the only First Lady of the United States ever elected to public office. Clinton was a candidate for the Democratic nomination for president in 2008, losing to Senator Barack Obama. President Obama appointed Clinton to serve as U.S. Secretary of State, a position she held from 2009 - 2013. In April 2015, she announced her candidacy for the 2016 Democratic presidential nomination.

REPRESENTATION OF YOUNG WOMEN AGED 20-35 YEARS

REPRESENTATION OF YOUNG WOMEN AGED 20-35 YEARS

I have involved in personal development projects aimed at representing young women and teenage mothers in legislative and civic processes. My interest in submitting this request create awareness of existing representation gap for Kenyan women aged 20-25-35 and teenage mothers who do not 'fit as youths' for being mothers and who are looked down by older women.

These group has been sideline and are not involved in entrepreneurship or empowerment programs despite the many challenges hat they face including;

1.    Unemployment

2.    Marital Abuse

3.    Domestic Violence

4.    Sexual Violence RAPE;  date rapes, 'sex for grades', ‘sex for jobs’

The possible interventions for this group include

1.    Civic Education

2.    Economic Empowerment

3.    Capacity Building Trainings

4.    Counselling

5.    Family Planning

6.    Creation of specific employment offportunities

7.    Representation of these group

I look forward to participation in the stakeholders’ forum.

Jacqueline Njambi Kamau

0724216046

Keep Your Husband

Keep Your Husband

1. Call him by a pet name
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the
family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you
behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you
offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be
sure that he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when
he has no enough money at hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to them.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when
he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him
I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or politician gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any
other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your
husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Implement this law that your family will wake up
early in the morning to pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...
May God bless your marriages.
Singles may you experience true love today and forever.
May non-serious people that waste your time be disconnected in your life In Jesus Name!!!
REMAIN EVER BLESSED!!!

Sing Praises

Hebrews 13:15

"Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise--the fruit of lips that openly profess his name."

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A pastor visited one woman who was ill in bed; over the last 6 months he had buried seven of her family members and now had just heard that the eighth, her beloved husband, was cast away at sea.

The pastor asked, “Do not you fret at any of those things?” The woman replied with a lovely smile upon her pale cheek, “O, no! How can I fret at anything which is the will of God? Let Him take all besides: He has given me Himself. I love, I praise Him every moment.”

“Praise the Lord!” has become such a cliché in Christian circles but I sometimes wonder if we truly mean what we say. Amazingly praising God is one of the disciplines of our Christian faith and just as we are to pray without ceasing, we are to praise God continually.

We are to offer praise as a sacrifice. To praise means to commend, to express admiration for, it means to applaud, to speak highly of, to sing praises, to elevate something.

It is easy to praise God when He has blessed us, provided for us and protected us. In this situations praise does not really cost us anything because it is the response to some action that directly benefits us.

But what about those times when things don’t work out your way? When your child dies or your husband leaves you? What about the times when the results come back positive? Those times when not an ounce of praise can come out of you? What do you do?

You praise the Lord continually. It is in these times that you offer up a sacrifice of praise, it is these times that it costs you to praise Him because everything within you tells you otherwise.

Sacrifices are all about killing and slaughtering for a purpose. You have to kill your pride, kill your fears and anxieties and elevate God beyond the situation that is before you.

It is these kinds of moments that bring you back to the real reason and focus of our praise. Jesus, the one who made the ultimate sacrifice for us on the cross at Calvary. It is in Him and through Him that we offer a sacrifice of praise to God. That is why we sing songs of praise to Him.

Psalm 100:4-5 Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.

Reflective Thoughts
• Do you praise the Lord continually or only when you feel He has been good to you?
• When was the last time you sang songs of praise to the Lord apart from a church service or some kind of fellowship?
• When you truly see God for who He is, you will have no option but to bow down and worship and praise Him. What is your perception of God?

30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN-----------

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
Have a lovely day.....

Unconditional

Unconditional

Romans 5:6-7
For while we were still helpless, at the appointed moment, Christ died for the ungodly. For rarely will someone die for a just person- though for a good person perhaps someone might even dare to die. But God proves His own love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us. 

Does God really love me? If He loves me, why would He allow this to happen to me? Why can’t I feel His presence? I have done so many bad things, can God really love someone like me?

We all ask this questions from time to time especially when we are going through hard seasons in our lives. For some reason we equate God's love with the good seasons in our life and when things are not so good we take that to mean that God is not happy with us, thus we question His love for us. We hardly have any doubts about the love of God for us when we are going through a season of plenty and favor.

This is so because many times our love is conditional. For some of us when growing up, our fathers were proud to show us off saying this is my son or daughter when we had done a good thing like getting straight (A) in our exams. The moment we get a (C) we are no longer referred to as my son or daughter by our fathers, instead we become our mothers children.

Even in the house of God we tend to show our love to one another conditionally. When a brother or sister falls from grace instead of loving them back into the fellowship we push them away. We start avoiding them and spreading all manner of stories about them.

Does God love us in the same way? No He does not. God’s love for us is unconditional. We cannot do anything to earn it; neither can we do anything to take it away.

God did not look down from heaven and think, wow! These guys are so good, they are praying, loving one another and worshiping me. Let me send my son to redeem them because they are so good!

No, the bible says that while we were still sinners in our filth, God loved us and sent His son to die for us. It has nothing to do with what we did.

There is nothing that you can do to make God love you more and there is nothing that you can do to make Him love you less. God loves all of us the same, and that should be the message we emphasize this Christmas season!

Many songs have been sung about love but this one thing is for sure, God's love is worth singing about forever!

Prayer Points
- Take some time and thank God for His unconditional love.
- Ask God to fill you with His love that you may love others unconditionally.
- Thank God for Christmas the season the whole world recognizes that Jesus came.
- Pray for the lost to embrace God's love.
- Pray for the nation and those who are travelling this Christmas season.
- Pray for Family media.
- Commit your plans before God and ask Him to guide you.

PRACTICAL APPLICATION
As you reflect upon God's love allow His joy to fill your life….Be happy!

Bitch I’ve Had Enough

Bitch I’ve Had Enough

I don’t know how

To compete with you

In a game

That you have already won

For so many years

You are such a witch

I know your name

I always smell you

He tells my ears

About you

I hate

the attention you get

the affection you get

the time spent on you

the money invested in you

I wish

I was able to I give

The satisfaction that you give

The comfort that you deliver

The courage   thatyou give

The confidence that you inspire

The strength that you give

I hate

The way you are available

Any day any time

In a restaurant or club

Your varieties for

Any one any where

Whether  cheap or expensive

I wish

You  leave my man for me

He will be passionate towards me

He will praise  me

Like a queen

His love for  me

Will be bigger tan an elephant

He will share me with friend

In every table of men

I wish

He will be proud of me

Like old wine

He will be royal to me

Like an opener

He  will never leave me

whether its hot or cold

He will be there for me

The way he is always there for you

Bitch go far from my man

I have had enough

Do you Want to get well?

Do you want to get well?

Sometimes we get so attached to our situations and problems. They become our identity so much that inwardly we are not willing to give it up. Maybe it’s that secret sin that you condemn outwardly but inwardly you are so attached to the pleasure you derive from it. Perhaps you are so attached to the sympathy and the attention you get because of your situation that you are not willing to give it up.

As always Jesus does not impose, He is asking a direct question. Sometimes instead of giving a direct answer we are busy giving excuses and trying to explain our situation and why we are in it.

The Lord asks, do you want a job? And instead of simply saying yes or no, you start giving excuses…..well I don’t have the right qualifications, my father never took me to collage, I don’t have a rich uncle to connect me to a good job….

Do you want to be healed? Well….. I don’t have the money to go to hospital, I don’t have someone to take me to hospital, and this sickness is terminal…What all these excuses are exposing is lack of faith in the ability of the God we serve.
A man had been sick for 38 years; this is longer than Jesus had walked this earth (John 5:5-9). Every now and then an angel would come and stir up the waters of the pool called Bethesda, and the first person to get into the waters would be healed.

We don’t know how many times the man had sought healing at the pool but as it is, he was always late for his miracle. Jesus asked him a very simple question, “Do you want to get well?”

Now imagine you are this man, you have been sick for 38 years. Many times you have tried to get to the pool to get your healing but you always come short. Healing means a new way of life. You no longer have to depend on others, no limitations or being secluded. What would your answer be?

Amazingly, the man responds by giving excuses and reasons why he has not been healed, and guess what, he is no different from you and I. He blames someone else for his lack of healing. He says he has no man to help him to the pool when the water is stirred.


The man in the story needed someone to boldly prophesy over his life and then he got his healing without going to the pool.

Now, what was the question again?
Do you want to get well?

Practice What You Preach

Practice What You Preach

A preacher got on a bus and discovered he had been given too much change. When he was getting off the bus, he told the bus driver who replied, "I know". "Why did you give me too much?" asked the preacher. "I was in church yesterday and heard you preach," replied the driver. "I wanted to see if you were worth listening to."

How much do you know? Have you ever been around people who know alot and you are mesmerized by their knowledge? Knowing is one thing but without application then what you know will not be beneficial to you.

The bible says you shall know the truth and the truth will make you free. It is only able to do that once we apply it and walk in it.

Your habits and actions will reveal to you what you really believe and not your words or knowledge. The bible says knowledge puffs up, you may know lots of scriptures but how many of them are you actually applying in your life?

Every Sunday we go to church and we are taught from the word of God it is only when we begin to apply the word we are taught from the tiny things like what the pastor in our story was faced with to what we consider the large things that we find growth and stability in our walk with God.

Don't ignore anything, be faithful especially in the small things because this forms the foundation for you to be faithful when the big things come.


1 Corinthians 9:27
But I keep control of my body, and bring it into subjection, lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.

Leadership is about creating a way for

people to contribute to making

Something extraordinary happen.

About getting extraordinary

performance out of ordinary people.

What do you want?

What do you want?

Jesus asks blind Bartimaeus a very interesting question. I find it interesting because of the scenario before him. Here you have a blind man, Bartimaeus asking for help.

The most logical thing you would think of is that since he is blind then he wants to be healed right? Wrong? That’s making an assumption. Jesus never made the assumption; he asks the man to clearly articulate what he wants Jesus to do for him.

Bartimaeus knew what he wanted and he clearly voiced it to Jesus, he wanted to see and because of his faith, he received sight. One very important lesson we can learn here is the importance of knowing what you want. If you have no idea what you want, then how will you know it when you see it?

Many of us miss out on the opportunities in life because we are not clear on what we want. We settle for anything. Sometimes we settle for what is available not because we have no idea what we want but simply because it can get us going or act as a vessel to get us to where we want to go.

Bartimaeus knew one thing and that is he wanted to see. If he had sight then his whole life would be turned around and he would not have to depend on others begging by the road side.

He had the faith that Jesus was able to make that a possibility in his life so when he heard that Jesus was passing by, he recognized an opportunity that no one else saw.

Do you know what you want? I wondered today if Jesus was to ask the same question, how many of us would be able to clearly articulate what we want?

Mark 10:49-52
(49) Jesus stopped and said, “Call him over!” They called out to the blind man and said, “Don’t be afraid! Come on! He is calling for you.” (50) The man threw off his coat as he jumped up and ran to Jesus. (51) Jesus asked, “What do you want me to do for you?” The blind man answered, “Master, I want to see!” (52) Jesus told him, “You may go. Your eyes are healed because of your faith.” Right away the man could see, and he went down the road with Jesus.

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT
MARRIAGE
1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and
she never asked you if you’re saving or investing,
and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry
her.
2. My son, a woman could be a
good wife to you, some could be a good mother
to your children but if you’ve found a woman like
a mother to you, your children and your family,
please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife
to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even
in our days, we had farm-lands where they
worked every morning . . . that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the
house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will
see a smile on your wife’s face.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your
wife be in- charge of your salary, it will be
difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of
the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your
care, she will keep you asking even when all has
been spent.
6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain
in her body is nothing to be compared to the
wound on her heart and that means you may be
in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a
bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon
be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had
many wives and many children because of our
large farm- lands and many harvests, there are
hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace
your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet
your mother could be your eateries and
restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing we did there was to embrace each
other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start
making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew how
hard you worked to get it, spend it on that
woman that stood by you all along.
11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled
at the window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex,
it was because I missed her so much.
12. My son, remember, when you say your wife
has changed, there could be something you’ve
stopped doing too.
13. My son, your mother rode the bicycle with me
before I bought that tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t endure with
you in your little beginning should not enjoy your
riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any
woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too
and has she ever compared you to any man?
15. My son, there is this thing you people call
feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal
right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one
part and ask her to start paying the other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took
more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your
wife a virgin, don’t blame
her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had
prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school
because I was foolish like many to think a female
child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that mistake, the
kind of female achievers I see nowadays has
made the male-gender an ordinary tag.
18. My son, your mother have once locked up the
cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because
she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat
her because of a day like this, so that I can be
proud to tell you that I never for once beat your
mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women had more of
natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some
had minor painting of their appellation mostly on
their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo,
but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part
of their body like your women of nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are not interested
in what happens in your marriage, try to handle
issues without always coming to us.
21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s
first sewing machine for her, help your wife
achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and
your mother, so that your children will take care
of you too