Which woman do i marry ? wife material

 MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE

By Jerry John Rawlings (Former Ghana President)

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.

Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.

As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me.

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand.

When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even

educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a- minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one.

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A

pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who

believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.

But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you!

If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you

my advice. When you find her, bring her for my

blessings.

May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you..

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Respect in Marriage

how to show respect to my husband, how to respect a man, how to respect a wife

Respect,  a couple that respects each other goes a long way. 

Respect is consulting your partner, respect is keeping no secrets, respect is staying faithful, respect is keeping your word, respect is never talking ill of your partner with others, Respect is communicating with your partner efficiently,  Respect is protecting your spouse even from your own folks.

Before doing something, ask yourself....is this act respectful to my spouse. That text you want send to your colleague,  is it respectful to your spouse?

That money you want to secretly send to your folks, is it being respectful to your spouse? 

Submission in Marriage

 Submission. 

women, why should women submit, is submission important in marriage? is submission a punishment? 

People have a very skewed view of what submission is, especially when applied to the woman in a marriage. 

Submission is a state of mind, an attitude of respect and a recognition of a pattern of authority. 

Submission is the natural response to genuine sacrificial love, which can  be experieced by any woman who has a husband. 

Submission is not a licence to oppress, it is a call to love without boundaries.  

Marry your money

Marry your money
Call customer care of your bank
Ask him to take the phone to your sweetheart
Because she is not picking your call
Talk to your girl
Because you love her more than me
If she does not speak
Send her an sms asking her to talk
Marry your money please
Because she  will be such a sweet darling
She will never ask nor answer your questions
She will be there even when you don’t need her
When she is done with you, will you marry?
Anorther man will take her
With all her belongings
She will learn to lover her new catch
She will transfer all her worth to him
She will always be in your mind and out of your hand
As you chase her in the arms of another