Unreasonable expectations

signs of unreasonable expectations in a relationship include:

Requiring your partner always to be available: This may include expecting them to be available at all times, regardless of what they are doing or what is happening in their own life.

Expecting your partner to change: This includes wanting your partner to become someone they are not or expecting them to look or act a certain way that makes them feel that they are not themselves.

Having unrealistic ideas: This may include expecting your partner to be perfect or always putting your needs first.

Making demands: This includes expecting your partner to do unreasonable or fair things, such as expecting them to always pay for everything you desire.

Thinking that you know what is best for your partner: This means making decisions without their input or consent.

Unrealistic expectations can be damaging to relationships for a few reasons.

First, when you have unrealistic expectations for your partner, you are setting them up to fail. It can cause resentment and frustration on their part, leading to conflict.

Secondly, unrealistic expectations can prevent you from being truly present in your relationship. When you are always focused on what your partner is not doing or meeting, you cannot enjoy the moment and experience all that your relationship offers.

Lastly, unrealistic expectations can also lead to feelings of disappointment and disillusionment when your partner cannot meet them. They can cause you to doubt the longevity and health of your relationship.