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Wednesday, 21 March 2018

4 Wife Material Lessons From The Proverbs 31 Woman


4 Wife Material Lessons From The Proverbs 31 Woman

Proverbs 31 woman sets standards that are worth emulating.
You are now a woman, who’s done with her teens and the experimenting twenties. It now calls for you to be the type of woman any man would want to share his last name with.
So here are four things that you can learn and apply from the proverbs 31 woman
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1. Be worth far more than rubies
This is how she is described and it is truly fitting, because as we read on we come to realize she adds value to those around her and is a great support system not just to her husband but to her family and her workers too.
2. Never take the shine away from your husband
As you begin to read about the Proverbs 31 woman, you read how her husband has full confidence in her. This indicates two things that the husband is secure in himself that he never deters her away from confidently achieving in her own right. Secondly, there is also no mention of her competing with her husband and so her hardworking nature comes across as her being a supportive wife and complimenting what her husband is achieving in his own right.

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3. Hard working woman
One thing that is clear, is the Proverbs 31 woman is not lazy at all. She does not solely rely on her husband efforts but she works to make sure that the family never lacks and always has food on the table, by investing in a variety of opportunities.There are times in a relationship where one of you will be unable to provide as much but it is on both of you to always make sure that the struggles you’re going through are never seen by the public and the family is hardly affected for your efforts restore balance.
4. Strong woman
This woman clearly doesn’t come across as one who has had a smooth life and all the experiences she gains add to her beauty, her strength and her wisdom, which in turn lead her to be a reputable woman.
The Proverbs 31 woman and her husband, teach us that a winning relationship requires mutual respect, support, and encouragement. This can sometimes lack in African relationships whereby the society dictates that a man is the only gender that matters, so we as women have a duty to continue changing the narrative just like Proverbs 31 woman did.
We should aim to be a woman who diligently works at succeeding in their careers, as well as finding a balance between being a wife and a mother, however, this comes with time. As we take shape to be this type woman, we should aim to be with men who respect our vision and are fully supportive of it.


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