The acronym C-A-R-E can help us remember four key elements of friendship.
C - Challenge your friend to grow spiritually. A good friend knows the importance of turning the conversation toward matters of faith. When was the last time you discussed matters of faith with a friend and challenged each other to grow?
A - Affirm your friend's value. A phone call or a text message can let your friend know how important he or she is and can keep your friendship strong. Does your friend know how important they are to you or do you assume they know? Make sure they know today.
R - Respect the feelings and wishes of your friend. No one wants a friend with whom ideas, dreams, and concerns fall on deaf ears. A good friend is a great sounding board. Are you easy to talk to or are you domineering and “always right?” Are your friend's thoughts ideas and fears safe with you?
E - Encourage your friend through compliments and by doing good deeds. Your friend will feel better after having been in your presence. When was the last time your friend felt encouraged because of what you had said or done for them?
Do you have a friend you should care for today?
C - Challenge your friend to grow spiritually. A good friend knows the importance of turning the conversation toward matters of faith. When was the last time you discussed matters of faith with a friend and challenged each other to grow?
A - Affirm your friend's value. A phone call or a text message can let your friend know how important he or she is and can keep your friendship strong. Does your friend know how important they are to you or do you assume they know? Make sure they know today.
R - Respect the feelings and wishes of your friend. No one wants a friend with whom ideas, dreams, and concerns fall on deaf ears. A good friend is a great sounding board. Are you easy to talk to or are you domineering and “always right?” Are your friend's thoughts ideas and fears safe with you?
E - Encourage your friend through compliments and by doing good deeds. Your friend will feel better after having been in your presence. When was the last time your friend felt encouraged because of what you had said or done for them?
Do you have a friend you should care for today?
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