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Wednesday, 14 August 2019

Looking for Little Romance


Looking for Little Romance
I want you to have
This beauty by your side
Kiss her lips kiss her everywhere
Careless her take her breath away
Drive her all the way

I want to have
A little romance with you
Just me and you
Let us rock all night tonight
Let us talk to love and do it right

I want to have you
Be one with you and hold you tight
Lick you where it matters most
Until you call my names
In your wishes and dreams

I want you to have
Me in your arms and you in my ass
Touch me and fill me up
Every time I wake up
I want a little romance


Tuesday, 6 August 2019

Stay Focused

A̳ l̳a̳d̳y̳ w̳e̳n̳t̳ t̳o̳ t̳h̳e̳ P̳a̳s̳t̳o̳r̳ a̳n̳d̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳🙍🏾 .̳.̳.̳ I̳ w̳o̳n̳'̳t̳ b̳e̳ a̳t̳t̳e̳n̳d̳i̳n̳g̳ C̳h̳u̳r̳c̳h̳ a̳n̳y̳m̳o̳r̳e̳.̳.̳
H̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ m̳a̳y̳ I̳ a̳s̳k̳ w̳h̳y̳?̳?̳
S̳h̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ I̳ s̳e̳e̳ p̳e̳o̳p̳l̳e̳ o̳n̳ t̳h̳e̳i̳r̳ c̳e̳l̳l̳ p̳h̳o̳n̳e̳s̳ d̳u̳r̳i̳n̳g̳ t̳h̳e̳ s̳e̳r̳v̳i̳c̳e̳,̳ s̳o̳m̳e̳ a̳r̳e̳ g̳o̳s̳s̳i̳p̳i̳n̳g̳,̳ s̳o̳m̳e̳ j̳u̳s̳t̳ a̳i̳n̳'̳t̳ l̳i̳v̳i̳n̳g̳ r̳i̳g̳h̳t̳,̳ t̳h̳e̳y̳ a̳r̳e̳ a̳l̳l̳ j̳u̳s̳t̳ h̳y̳p̳o̳c̳r̳i̳t̳e̳s̳.̳.̳.̳
T̳h̳e̳ P̳a̳s̳t̳o̳r̳ g̳o̳t̳ s̳i̳l̳e̳n̳t̳,̳ a̳n̳d̳ h̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ O̳K̳.̳.̳.̳ B̳u̳t̳ c̳a̳n̳ I̳ a̳s̳k̳ y̳o̳u̳ t̳o̳ d̳o̳ s̳o̳m̳e̳t̳h̳i̳n̳g̳ f̳o̳r̳ m̳e̳ b̳e̳f̳o̳r̳e̳ y̳o̳u̳ m̳a̳k̳e̳ y̳o̳u̳r̳ f̳i̳n̳a̳l̳ d̳e̳c̳i̳s̳i̳o̳n̳?̳
S̳h̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ w̳h̳a̳t̳'̳s̳ t̳h̳a̳t̳?̳
H̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ t̳a̳k̳e̳ a̳ g̳l̳a̳s̳s̳ o̳f̳ w̳a̳t̳e̳r̳ a̳n̳d̳ w̳a̳l̳k̳ a̳r̳o̳u̳n̳d̳ t̳h̳e̳ C̳h̳u̳r̳c̳h̳ 2⃣̳ t̳i̳m̳e̳s̳ a̳n̳d̳ d̳o̳n̳'̳t̳ l̳e̳t̳ a̳n̳y̳ w̳a̳t̳e̳r̳ f̳a̳l̳l̳ o̳u̳t̳ t̳h̳e̳ g̳l̳a̳s̳s̳.̳
S̳h̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ y̳e̳s̳ I̳ c̳a̳n̳ d̳o̳ t̳h̳a̳t̳!̳
S̳h̳e̳ c̳a̳m̳e̳ b̳a̳c̳k̳ a̳n̳d̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳ i̳t̳'̳s̳ d̳o̳n̳e̳.̳
H̳e̳ a̳s̳k̳e̳d̳ h̳e̳r̳ 3⃣̳ q̳u̳e̳s̳t̳i̳o̳n̳s̳:̳
1⃣̳.̳ D̳i̳d̳ y̳o̳u̳ s̳e̳e̳ a̳n̳y̳b̳o̳d̳y̳ o̳n̳ t̳h̳e̳i̳r̳ p̳h̳o̳n̳e̳?̳
2⃣̳.̳ D̳i̳d̳ y̳o̳u̳ s̳e̳e̳ a̳n̳y̳b̳o̳d̳y̳ g̳o̳s̳s̳i̳p̳i̳n̳g̳?̳
3⃣̳.̳ W̳a̳s̳ a̳n̳y̳b̳o̳d̳y̳ l̳i̳v̳i̳n̳g̳ w̳r̳o̳n̳g̳?̳
S̳h̳e̳ s̳a̳i̳d̳,̳ I̳ d̳i̳d̳n̳'̳t̳ s̳e̳e̳ a̳n̳y̳t̳h̳i̳n̳g̳ b̳e̳c̳a̳u̳s̳e̳ I̳ w̳a̳s̳ s̳o̳ f̳o̳c̳u̳s̳e̳d̳ o̳n̳ t̳h̳i̳s̳ g̳l̳a̳s̳s̳,̳ s̳o̳ t̳h̳e̳ w̳a̳t̳e̳r̳ w̳o̳u̳l̳d̳n̳'̳t̳ f̳a̳l̳l̳.̳
H̳e̳ t̳o̳l̳d̳ h̳e̳r̳,̳ w̳h̳e̳n̳ y̳o̳u̳ c̳o̳m̳e̳ t̳o̳ C̳h̳u̳r̳c̳h̳ ,̳ y̳o̳u̳ s̳h̳o̳u̳l̳d̳ b̳e̳ j̳u̳s̳t̳ t̳h̳a̳t̳ f̳o̳c̳u̳s̳e̳d̳ o̳n̳ G̳o̳d̳ ,̳ s̳o̳ t̳h̳a̳t̳ Y̳O̳U̳ d̳o̳n̳'̳t̳ f̳a̳l̳l̳.̳
T̳H̳A̳T̳'̳S̳ W̳H̳Y̳ J̳E̳S̳U̳S̳ S̳A̳I̳D̳ "̳F̳O̳L̳L̳O̳W̳ M̳E̳,̳"̳!̳!̳!̳
H̳e̳ d̳i̳d̳ n̳o̳t̳ s̳a̳y̳ f̳o̳l̳l̳o̳w̳ C̳h̳r̳i̳s̳t̳i̳a̳n̳s̳.̳
D̳o̳n̳'̳t̳ l̳e̳t̳ y̳o̳u̳r̳ r̳e̳l̳a̳t̳i̳o̳n̳s̳h̳i̳p̳ w̳i̳t̳h̳ G̳o̳d̳ b̳e̳ d̳e̳t̳e̳r̳m̳i̳n̳e̳d̳ b̳y̳ h̳o̳w̳ o̳t̳h̳e̳r̳s̳ r̳e̳l̳a̳t̳e̳ w̳i̳t̳h̳ G̳o̳d̳.̳ L̳e̳t̳ i̳t̳ b̳e̳ d̳e̳t̳e̳r̳m̳i̳n̳e̳d̳ b̳y̳ h̳o̳w̳ f̳o̳c̳u̳s̳e̳d̳ y̳o̳u̳ a̳r̳e̳ w̳i̳t̳h̳ G̳o̳d̳.̳
P̳l̳e̳a̳s̳e̳ s̳h̳a̳r̳e̳ t̳h̳i̳s̳ m̳e̳s̳s̳a̳g̳e̳ w̳i̳t̳h̳ o̳t̳h̳e̳r̳s̳!̳!
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Friday, 26 July 2019

Gods Provision

Gods Provision 

Joel 2:15-19 King James Version (KJV)

15 Blow the trumpet in Zion, sanctify a fast, call a solemn assembly:
16 Gather the people, sanctify the congregation, assemble the elders, gather the children, and those that suck the breasts: let the bridegroom go forth of his chamber, and the bride out of her closet.
17 Let the priests, the ministers of the Lord, weep between the porch and the altar, and let them say, Spare thy people, O Lord, and give not thine heritage to reproach, that the heathen should rule over them: wherefore should they say among the people, Where is their God?
18 Then will the Lord be jealous for his land, and pity his people.
19 Yea, the Lord will answer and say unto his people, Behold, I will send you corn, and wine, and oil, and ye shall be satisfied therewith: and I will no more make you a reproach among the heathen:

Sunday, 21 July 2019

The Fable of Porcupine (worth reading)

The Fable of Porcupine (worth reading)
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It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold.
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The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm.
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This way they covered & protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions.
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After a while, they decided to distance themselves one from the other & they began to die, alone & frozen.
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So they had to make a choice...
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Either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth. Wisely, they decided to go back to being together.
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They learned to live with the little wounds caused by the close relationship with their companions in order to receive the warmth & heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.
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The best couples, best friends, best colleagues are not the one that bring together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others & can admire the other person's good qualities.
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Better to be surrounded by warm pokes than be frozen in solitude.

Stay blessed and United.
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Wednesday, 3 July 2019

The Brokenhearted

Psalm 147:3
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. A breaking point creates an opening for God to grab hold to a heart that was before walled shut. There's a tendency to put idols in the space that should be reserved only for Him. Healing from a wounded heart often pushes us to search our heart for breaks, tears, and places where we might have missed it. Other times a broken heart is caused at no fault of our own, but by someone who we love. In this case, God trains us to forgive and free our hearts from the bondage of bitterness. Give your wounds to God. He alone has the power to rescue, renew, and restore a heart to fullness of joy.

Sunday, 23 June 2019

Where is God


Where is God

Where is my God
Awesome In splendor and doing wonders
I believe he is able to restore me
This is a light thing in the sight of the lord
I choose God over everything
God who rains bread from heaven
Who ordered me to be fruitful and multiply
Who send me meat by the wind
He begun the good work in me
and will bring it to completion
In him I find surplus of prosperity
Where is this God
I know him

Where is the God
Who makes bitter waters sweet
I can hear him speak to me
And he hears when I speak
God who brought me out from slavely
Who has set me free as his son
Who has opened the good treasury and heavens
To give me rain and bless work of my hands
To live in abundance of Grace, joy and peace
He is never late he comes just on time
In him I find security and strength
and his blessing are overtaking  me
I am intimate with him

Where is the caring God
The Lord who comes to me and blesses me
God is greater than all gods
I see him inside me I see him in you
I am Gods peculiar Possessions
Who shows mercy and steadfast Love
Who makes a way and is doing a new thing
In him Everything is works for my good
and for  Glory and honour of his name
He is able to do exceedingly and abundantly
Beyond what I think or Pray
I trust him
I am waiting upon him

Tuesday, 11 June 2019

How to hear Gods instructions

How to hear Gods instructions

One word from God is enough to change my life completely ....Amen

how to get instructions from God

Psalm 25:4-5 New International Version (NIV)

Show me your ways, Lord,
    teach me your paths.
Guide me in your truth and teach me,
    for you are God my Savior,
    and my hope is in you all day long.

1. Gods Light and Leading 
“On Thee do I wait all the day.” The special surrender to the Divine guidance in our seasons of prayer must cultivate, and be followed up by, the habitual looking upwards “all the day”. As simple as it is, to one who has eyes, to walk all the day in the light of the sun, so simple and delightful can it become to a soul practiced in waiting on God, to walk all the day in the enjoyment of God’s light and leading.
2. Read the word of God 
What is needed to help us to such a life is just one thing: the real knowledge and faith of God as the one only source of wisdom and goodness, as ever ready, and longing much to be to us all that we can possibly require - yes! this is the one thing we need. If we but saw our God in His love, if we but believed that He waits to be gracious, that He waits to be our life and to work all in us, - how this waiting on God would become our highest joy, the natural and spontaneous response of our hearts to His great love and glory!
3. Pray 
4, Follow the Leading of Holy Spirit 
Do you walk in obedience at your convenience or do you walk in strict obedience to our Father?
Obedience requires sacrifice. It requires us sacrificing what we think is important and what our flesh wants. It sometimes requires us sacrificing the easy way out. It requires us to get rid of our fleshly tendencies. Obedience requires discipline. Discipline to be adamant about following His orders, obeying our prophecies and directions that He has given directly to us.Some of us would say we are obedient to God. We go to church, pray and worship, but this is not the obedience I am talking about. The obedience I am talking about is following His instruction.
5. Enjoy peace of God and Be still 
There is much more we can be doing for the kingdom if we will take the time to repent, confess, submit and take a huge step forward in complete obedience. No matter what it feels like or looks like, will you take that step forward with me in complete obedience? Remember our life is not our own; it belongs to the One who sits on the throne.

Thursday, 30 May 2019

ILO International Labour organization



What is the ILO?
This is an International Labour Organization which was created in 1919 of the treaty of Versailles which emerged the League of Nations. In 1946 after the demise of the League of Nations, the ILO became the first specialized agency associated the Limited Nations which is a Tripartite agency that brings together Government, Employers  and Workers' with the  view of promoting decent work in the World.
When was the ILO created?
the ILO was founded in the year 1919
What is the mandate of the ILO?
ILO seeks the promotion of Social Justice, Internationally recognized human and labour rights and decent work for all. This implies that the ILO is an agency which fights for human rights and ensures the fair treatment of both Women and Men.
ILO's key direction which is Decent Work: 
Creates greater opportunities for Women and Men to secure decent employment and income.
Promotes and realize International Labour Standards, fundamental principles and rights at work. this means that the ILO makes sure that there are no infringements of rights.
Extend coverage and effectiveness for social protection for all. This means policies and programmes are designed to reduce poverty and vulnerability for all.
Strengthen tripartism and socal dialogue. Implying that, ILO brings together the Government, Employers and Workers to negotiate and reach on a consensus.
What are the means of action of the ILO? 
The ILO's means of achievements are through:
Standard Setting Activities.
Technical Cooperation.
Knowledge Development and Dissemination.
Publication.
What are the main bodies of the ILO?
The main bodies are:
The International Labour Conference
The Governing body which is made up of 28 Government representatives, 14 Employers representatives and 14 Workers representatives.
International Labour Office.
What is ACTRAV?
The Bureau for Workers' Activities is the main link between the International Labour Office and the world of work through its key Stakeholders: the Trade Union Movement.
disseminates policies and programmes of the ILO and its technical units to Trade Unions.
Reflects interest of Trade Unions in programs and actions of the ILO.
Supports Workers' representatives in ILO's decision making bodies.
Educate and train Trade Union Leaders/activists and staff. An obvious example is this Young Women Leadership Training being organized by ACTRAV.
                                        QUIZ II
What is ILS?
They are legal instruments drawn up by the ILO constituents (Government, Employers and Worker) that sets out basic principles and rights at work. Which are made up of Conventions, Recommendations and Protocols.
What subjects do ILS cover?
The ILS ensures better working conditions for all. below are the subjects ILS covers.
Freedom of Association and Collective Bargaining 
Equality of Opportunity and Treatment 
Elimination of Child Labour and Protection of Children and Young Persons
Forced Labour Occupational Safety and Health 
Working Time
Employment Security 
Wages 
Training and skills development 
Labour Administration and Inspection 
 Employment Policy and Promotion
 Social Security 
 Maternity Protection 
Migrant Workers 
Indigenous and Tribal Peoples Specific Categories of Workers
What are the main characteristics of the ILS?
Tripartite - The consensus of Government, Employers and Workers.
Universal - Are set at the world level 
Flexibility - Take into accounts the needs of all member states.
How are ILS created?
First a problem is identified.
Item put on ILC agenda (by GB or ILC with 2/3 majority)
Item is then discussed at the International Labour Conference once or twice
Instrument adopted with a 2/3 majority of delegates present at the International Labour Conference.
How are ILS supervised?
Regular System of Supervision. This is bases on the obligation to report on each of the application ratified Convention (Art. 22 ILO Constitution)
Through Special Systems of Supervision. This involves cases of specific allegations of violation by a Member State.
What are the main supervisory bodies of the ILO?
They are:
Committee of Experts on the Application of Conventions and Recommendations (CEACR) 1926
Conference Committee on the Application of Standards.
Committee on Freedom of Association - 1951
a. Tripartism
Tripartism is a system where governments, employers and employees come together on common ground to find solutions for labor and social policies. As stated in the Workers' Rights in a Global Economy: Recap of Chapter 1 , "A function tripartism requires as a minimum; independent workers and employers organisation that has authority with representation of over a significant part of the workforce and the enterprises, democratic governments that gurantee the right to organise and bargain collectively with providing a conducive environment for genuine substantive dialogue, and a willingness of all sides to accept the demands and very existence of the counterparts as legitimate".
b. Means of action of the ILO
Since its establishment in 1919, ILO works on a tripartite system that encourages the promotion of opportunities for decent and productive work for both women and men, in alightment with freedom, equality, security and human dignity. With this in mind, ILO has means of action which acts as a guideline to achieve end results that benefit all the three parties (governments, workers and employers).
Firstly, there is a standard setting of activities where the elaboration and adoption takes place, with supervision of member states application of International Labor Standards. With this comes Technical Cooperation. Here, promotion of the objectives are established by ILS, whilst undertaking a range of research activities and the publishing of findings through books, manuals and journals etc.
c. ILO Core Conventions
The subjects which are covered by the Core conventions are;
- Feedom of association, collective bargaining and industrial relations
- Elimination of Child Labour 
- Forced Labour
- Anti- discrimination
- Equality of opportunity and treatment
There are differences that arises in regards to their implementation for women and men. For years, gender equality has been a challenge that is progressive but at a slow rate. For example, there are more awareness programmes and training  given to men when compared to women. However, this is changing as women are encouraged to be more active not only at workplaces but also in union movements. 
d. Normlex Database Analysis
Fiji, as named by its government of the day, as democratic is so "far fetched". Out of the 38 conventions rarified by Fiji,  of which 29 are in force, I have identified at least  two (2) ILO conventions that has not been ratified;
1. CO87: Freedom of Association and Protection of the Right to Organise Convention,1948 (No.87)
2. CO98: Right to Organise and Collective Bargaining Convention, 1949 (No.98)
 As a unionist, recent events of the massive layoff of Water Authority of Fiji [WAF] employees, saw that CO87 and CO98 was not being honoured by both the Government and Employer. In September 2018, WAF and the representative of workers, National Union of Workers (NUW) came into a lengthy collective bargaining meetings and successfully came into an agreement and signed the Collective Agreement (CA) where provisions could be changed in the year 2021. However, despite this, the employer breached the CA by giving out Individual Contracts. The union, NUW, in turn, informed the employer to refrain from such unlawful practise as there is a CA already in place. In February 2019, Offer Letters were given out to workers with their contract term stated 'As per CA'. In the CA, there is a classification of workers who are either permanent ( worker who has been working with the authority continuously with more than 1 year) and temporary (worked with the authority within 6 months). Despite this, the employer went ahead and laid off workers on the 30th of April 2019, stating that their contract term has expired. On the 1st of May, majority of the workers turned up to work, only to be locked out. This staged a protest by all the workers, but, this was cut short by Fiji Police force who came in and stated that workers were in breach of the Public Order Act (Cap20) of Fiji. Anyone seen to be in breach of this were arrested. This resulted in the unlawful arrest of Mr Felix Anthony (General Secretary)  from a tripartite meeting with the Government representatives, employer and ILO officials, and 29 members of union members and 1 union worker, who were arrested from the Fiji Trade Union Congress private property.
For the past 6 days, police officers has been circulating the Fiji Trade Union Congress office intimidating workers with their presence. This breaches the CO87 Article 3 (2) which states that ' The public authorities shall refrain from any interference which would restrict this right or impede exercise thereof'.
(Ref: Personal Experience and Observation)
I think Fiji has not ratified both the above mentioned Convention as the government leaders in itself needs to be changed. Since the current Fiji government lead the 2006 Fiji Coup, there has been little freedom of association mostly for trade union movements. There is also some laws in place, like the ' Public Order Act' that requires premits for approval of organise and association. Fiji Trades Union Congress has made multiple applications for a Nationwide March only to be rejected by either the Fiji Police or Fiji Road Authority, with one of their latest reason that it is a handful for both the authorities to handle such an event.

Garnished and Embraced


1. GARNISHED and EMBRACED

I am garnished and embraced

I am the greatest gift
Coz I am Just J

I am glowing and growing
Coz I am Just J

I am a powerhouse
Stronger, sweeter and sexier
Coz I am Just J

I rise again
From a Minor fall
With a major lift
Coz I am Just J

I was broken
I broke myself
To be built
By my maker
Coz am Just J

I am my number one
I ran to the one
That I belong to
The one I long for
The one I want for life
Coz am Just J

I am made perfect
No longer afraid
Relieved from my past
Forgiven the traitors
Forging forward
I love my present more
Coz am Just J




2. My New Me
My brokenness healed
My wounds bounded
My scars made marks of love
My heart is not troubled
My spirit in a high holy place
My mind Made up 
My ways amended 
My destruction rebuilt
My fears abandoned 
My peace restored
My confidence revived 
My self power reestablished 
My strength renewed 
My soul rejoices in God


3. DEEP IN GOD
I love the Lord of my Life
May he be highly exalted
I am totally cast to him
I believe he deeply cares
The lord has looked my way
His power is made perfect in me
He will never fail me
He will never forsake me

I forgot the one who created pain
I follow the one who has a plan
I have been restored 
By the maker of the whole world
God my Maker
God my Lover

4. The One I love
I love you; my best
I am out of love
Come fill me up
I am permanently attached
Connected to the core
With every beat of my heart
To the one I love

Written by
Njambi Jacqueline
0724216046







It is an Obligation; Thanks Giving Poem


It is an Obligation
God has blessed me
God has favoured me
I utter his praise
I exalt his name
I proclaim before all people
  The good deeds of God
I will never tire of giving
 Him thanks

I will practice alms giving
I publish the works of our God
I will not tire of doing what is good
I will reveal in a worthy way
  The words of God
I will bless God forever
To the glory of God

I am restored, restructured and rebuilt
I am revived and restructured
In the will of God
The Only one I will bless is God

I thank my God
  Who performed the wonders
Blessed be God
  Who lives forever and ever
His reigns endures forever

I declare his praise before nations
  He has shown me his greatness
  He has shown me his power
He is our Lord
He is our God
He is our father
He is God forever and ever
I return to him with
All of my heart
All of my soul
All of my mind

Loudly I give him thanks
My soul rejoices in The King of heaven
My soul blesses the Lord Great King
Be exalted God above the heaven
God let your Glory be all over earth

I will remember God in sincerity of heart
 And I will dwell in security
I will serve God in sincerity
And do what is pleasing to him
I will keep God in mind
And bless his name always

Written by
Njambi Jacqueline

Jacqueline.kamau@gmail.com
0724216046
30th May 2019






Thursday, 9 May 2019

My May Testimony

My May Testimony 

As i give my testimony i believe the one who begun the goos work in me will bring it to completion, be encouraged....
1. TOTALLY HEALED
I have a testimony of my inner healing, today I have no bitterness, I am not seducing baby daddy, I trust God and totally believe in him, I am living my life in Christ, I am Holy Spirit Led, I easily read the word of God and pray, I have experienced physical healing for me n family, right now I am at a 5Star Hotel Out of Town for a Job soo many reasons to thank God for.

2. SPIRITUAL TRANSFORMATION
These transformation I give God glory.
In January through this group I started by letting go of a man who does not love me and all unhealthy relationships, sexual ties Brocken. All the sins confessed and God is faithful and has forgiven me. I have accepted Gods Love and forgiveness.

3. SUPPORT FROM FRIENDS FAMILY AND SPC
I remember asking @⁨Nungari Single Parent⁩ for some prayers she had made so that I can learn to pray walked Journey with @Lucy
Reading posts by @⁨Steve Kyalo Muia⁩ off late @GraceKariuki
Friends and business people I have met in these group
Being a Back Bench even sharing my testimony is a miracle too.

4. TOTAL RESTORATION
My May Testimony say I don’t know how devil had blocked my eyes not to even see the blessings of God in my life now when I am down I count my blessings and acknowledgment that it’s not power or might or my strength but by the spirit of the Lord.
I worship God and praise The almighty King of Kings

5. GODS WAY
I am Grateful to God who has placed me where I am and will walk with me for the rest of my life , teaching me his perfect will and living according to the the plan that he has for me to give me a future and a hope
Glory and honour to God 

6. GODS MIRACLES
I am free from all bondages, guilt,
I love me and I am proud of who I am
My relationship with my daughter has been transformed and Gods Grace is sufficient in my parenting
At all time I am not relying on me but my Trust in Jesus and in Holy Spirit I have a Comforter Advisor strengthens and Standby help

7. GUIDANCE TO MY FELLOW SINGLE PARENTS
I can go on and on I am grateful to God and my life will never be the same again
I ENCOURAGE YOU MY FELLOW SINGLE PARENTS TRUST GOD TRUST THE PROCESS BELIEVE AND RELY ON HIM TOTALLY LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE, LEAVE BABY DADDY ALONE AND ALLOW THEM TO BE FATHERS (as per your security n kids life) LEAVE BITTERNESS AND HATRED ALONE BELIEVE JESUS FOR YOUR LIFE
WHEN LONELY=PRAISE GOD
WHEN BROCKEN=TRUST HIS HEALING
WHEN SEXUAL DESIRES COME=TRUST GOD HE CREATED THEM
GOD KNOWS HOW TO MAKE EVERYTHING BEAUTIFUL IN ITS OWN TIME

8. GLORY AND HONOUR TO GOD
All praise to Jesus as today single or not I am living Life in abundance, Enjoying blessings of God, serving others, helping  and mentoring people
It’s my life and I am Glad to live it as God designed
I can go on and On but Let me stop there I am believing my life that of my daughter and everyone in this Group to The almighty God who is able to do super exceedingly and superabundantly above what we think and pray

Tuesday, 23 April 2019

single mother

Yes, She is a single mother, not because she was promiscuous, not because she had many men diving in her honey pot, not because she was a husband snatcher, not because she was immoral, not because she was stupid, not because she was a good time girl, ….
But because she trusted the wrong man with her heart, she gave herself to the wrong man, the man took advantage of her simple naïve and pure love, the man promised her heaven but led her the hell way, the man took her heart and instead of keeping it safe shattered it in the rocks of his own ego and irresponsibility/
She is a single mother because a coward took off as soon as he led her the motherhood way but she was brave enough to go the way alone, endure ridicule and hatred alone, get misjudged alone, etc. She endured all emotions of rejection alone, she endured all difficulties of pregnancy alone, she embraced motherhood alone and emerged as a strong woman all alone.
She deserves respect and congratulations for enduring to the end all alone as the dead beat went on with life as if she does not exist. She protected her child all alone and endured all innocent questions that would stab her heart alone, “Mummy, where is my dad?”. Sometimes she cries, sometimes she feels wretched, she feels weak and lost but she looks at her child and remembers she must remain strong, composed, courageous and focused since that child has no one else to look up to except her mother.
Big up to all single mothers who stood up strong and brave when the coward took off, press on with life. You are a great woman.

Sunday, 7 April 2019

Just Get Married _For all Young Women

DELAY IN MARRIAGE.
Some girls mentality is very low just like low battery... You will hear them saying "I don't want to marry yet am still young"... "I don't even want to hear anything about marriage now am still enjoying my life"...
Girls at the age of 18-24 always attracts serious men who is fully ready to get married but at this age most of our girls never wish to hear anything about marriage... You will hear them saying "who marriage eeep, who care about marriage"..... But this girls will be having serious sex relationship with small boys of their age... I mean serious sex relationship because at this age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them but they will prefer to chose those boys rather than the men.. They are still young to marry but they're not young to have sex with boys... If u even ask them why are you small girl having sex relationship like this... You will hear her asking you back "Who is small girl? Do u even know what I know? Are u expecting me not to be having sex at this my age? Do u want to kill me? And beside, what is your own problem with my own life? Abeg, pack well".
At the age of 25-27, parent will start asking them how far? Don't u have any one yet? Are u not planning to get married? Your mate are getting married? Or don't you know how old you are?... But mind you, parent only seems outside of their daughter not knowing that inside is finished.... With all this questions by her own parent she will now be thinking and asking her self some questions like... "My mate are getting married? Does it mean am old enough to marry? Hmmm but how should I go about it those my boyfriends are not a serious type... They're not even ready to marry yet.. Well, God knows the best I believe in God"... My sister, Did u just mention God?... Hmm!!!
At the age of 27-30... They will now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex again... They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage... But the funniest this is that, at this age of 30 no men will be asking their hand in marriage... Though they will see men but those men will only want date from them not marriage... Then u will see them forcing their self to marry a man who didn't like to marry them... No single man at the age of 30-35 will like to marry a lady of 30-35 too instead they will be looking for girls of 20-25 to marry and that is why you will see some men going back to their village to find young girl to marry when they seems that those young girls in the city are not serious about marriage and those that serious too old for them.
At the age of 30-35, if you ask her why are u not marry yet by this your age it getting too late... You will hear her asking you some silly questions like... "Are you God? Or do you want to marry me? Single at 30 or 35 it's a crime? Did I see who will marry me I didn't marry him? God knows the best pls".
At this age of 30-35 they will start going to Church like never before... They will now be a fake serious type.. Her name will now change from Lizy for sure to Sis in Christ... At this age if u ask her for dating you will hear her saying "My brother, am not like them... Am looking for husband not dating if truly u love me go and see my parent for marriage I can't do anything without asking for my parent hands... But when she was 18-24 yrs she was doing everything without her parent hands.
But ladies, do you even know that no man want old version again? Everybody is looking for latest version. U don't expect a young man of 30yrs to marry you of 30yrs as his house wife... Men that will be interested to marry you will be men of 40 plus and mind you, those men have married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife and I know that naija lady will not want to be second or third wife.
Everything in life has it own season and time... No lady that is looking for husband now that didn't see who want to marry her when she was 18-24 yrs but by then, they're not serious because they're not looking for husband but they're looking for sex. Let's assuming u started having sex at the age of 16-20... Now you're 30yrs old... My sister can you count how many time u had sex? Well, let's 4get about that because I know u won't like that part at all.
But let me tell you, everything is not about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you but when you by yourself changed the plan or miss the road you will now be shouting God where are you... When God is shouting my daughter where are u.. You're there doing Shakara, enjoying your life and talking men for granted.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies nowadays? Does it mean no men again? You will see that the old are there not getting married why the young ones are getting married. You as a orderly or senior sister never marry your younger or junior sisters are getting married.... You will now be asking God some stupid questions like "God why me? I mine not your daughter again? Do you want me to kill myself before u know what to do?"... After asking God those questions you will not go to your parent and be asking them some nonsense questions like "Mum what are u doing with my situation? Don't u want me to get married? Mum you need to do something ooh because I will commit suicide ooh."..... But why are u telling your mum before u commit the suicide? When you're committing sex and rejecting men did u tell your mum then? My sister, there is a time for everything... Don't let your time pass over you before you will start running after it.
They says grap your copy before it too late... Don't be too selective... Do not follow handsome... Nobody knows tomorrow,,, poor man today may be rich man tomorrow... I pray that God will by his mercy provide a better man (husband) for you ... Amen
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