show up for the fight

show up for the fight 
Compared to his opponent, he was only a teenager and had a small body frame. His opponent was massive, a huge man, a giant who made an experienced soldier shake in their boots.

The teenager was inexperienced in battle, his weapons were very crude and unrealistic and besides that he had no body armor. All he had was a small leather bag where he kept his weapons in the form of five smooth stones; in his hands he had a sling and a stick.

His opponent the giant was massive, to top that he was an experienced soldier a champion in his own right. He had on a bronze body armor that was 125 pounds probably more than the teenager weighed.

He carried a long spear and he had another soldier carry his shield before him. He was a fierce sight to behold. Imagine walking into the battle field and this is the sight you meet……who would you put your money on? The teenager or the experienced giant?

David had nothing in his favor in the natural. He was the underdog and in all human understanding he was going to be crushed like a cockroach in an instant.

But David was assured of something that no one else in the scenario knew about; he knew that God was with Him!

David did not focus on all the natural things that were against him, the very things that many tried to point out so as to dissuade him from going into battle with a warrior none of Israel was confident or willing to face.

David knew God was with him and he was assured that this was on battle God wanted him to fight and God would not disappoint. One stone is all it took and the giant was down!

Are you the underdog? Maybe you don’t have the qualifications and experience that everybody has and that intimidates you. Your ways may be crude and primitive like David’s sling compared to Goliath's sword and spear.

Don’t let that intimidate you don’t let all the talk pull you down, be confident in the God who has called you and led you into this battle.

He is a faithful God and He will give you the victory. Just be confident and show up for the fight. Regardless of what you see, stand firm to the end!

1 Samuel 17:45 (NIV)
David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.

Jubilee Alliance Part (JAP)

Kenya: The ruling Jubilee coalition has been transformed into a single party in a development that will shake up the political landscape ahead of the 2017 General Election.
Registration of the new outfit, Jubilee Alliance Party (JAP), was published in a special gazette on Tuesday and the party unveiled in Nairobi’s Lavington area, yesterday.
The party will not only sponsor a candidate in the upcoming Kajiado Central by-election, but it will also be the vehicle through which the Jubilee administration will seek re-election in the 2017 presidential polls.
On Friday, TNA Secretary General Onyango Oloo and his counterpart from URP Fred Muteti indicated neither TNA nor URP was fielding a candidate in Kajiado Central. Instead, the contenders would compete under JAP.
“We (TNA) are conducting a joint nomination with URP but the candidate who will be unveiled after the nominations will be unveiled through the Jubilee Alliance Party and not TNA or URP. This is a step towards ensuring the two parties work together,” Mr Oloo said in a press conference at TNA offices in Nairobi yesterday.
This means that although the two parties do not stand dissolved before 2017, they are potentially on their death bed because they will henceforth be inconsequential politically.
JAP’s registration was a closely guarded secret and only less than 10 MPs were aware of the development until Thursday this week when the reports started circulating. On Thursday, even a copy of the special gazette was still unavailable at the Government press where we visited twice to make inquiries.
JAP officials are Mombasa businessman Nelson Dzuya (chairperson) who unsuccessfully contested Kaloleni parliamentary seat in the last elections, Nairobi lawyer Veronica Nduati (secretary general) and Kericho businessman Alfred Kipkorir Mutai (treasurer).
Others are former Gatanga MP and President Uhuru Kenyatta’s close ally David Murathe who will be the party’s vice chairperson. Credible sources indicate President Kenyatta requested inclusion of Murathe on the party list.
Others are Pamela Mutua (organising secretary), Fatuma Mahamud (deputy treasurer) and Senator Yusuf Hajji’s son Abdul Hajji who rose to fame during the Westgate attack.
Speaking during the unveiling of JAP, Mr Murathe said the party has countrywide representation. Secretary general Veronicah Nduati, in reference to Kajiado Central by-elections said: “Today we unveil our candidates who are well aware that whoever wins the nomination will be supported all the way to the ballot.”
Top officials close to the ruling coalition acquired the Conservative Party that was renamed Jubilee Alliance Party through Tuesday’s special gazette notice.
Last Friday, Registrar of Political Parties had notified in a gazette notice: “In exercise of the power conferred by section 20 (l) (c) of the Political Parties Act, 2011, the Registrar of Political Parties gives notice that Conservative Party intends to change or amend its party.”
Through the notice former Conservative Party officials Ruth Njoroge (chairperson), Joseph Ouma Muga (secretary general) and Sarah Wambui Ngatho (treasurer) were dropped. Three days later, the party would be renamed.
President Kenyatta’s TNA and Deputy President William Ruto’s URP are the main partners in the Jubilee coalition.
The parties struck a pre-election agreement in the lead up to the 2013 General Election to form the Jubilee coalition that swept to power after defeating Raila Odinga’s Coalition for Reforms and Democracy (CORD).
The development could be a pointer that ruling coalition could as well have started their strategy for 2017 polls.Registrar of Political Parties Lucy Ndung’u approved the registration of the new outfit. She was, however, not available for a comment.
On Thursday, reports indicated that TNA’s Oloo, his URP counterpart Fred Muteti, Majority Leader Aden Duale, Kigumo MP Jamleck Kamau and Kericho Senator Charles Keter attended a meeting at State House, Nairobi, with the President and his deputy that is understood to have discussed the approach to the Kajiado Central by-election.
It is understood that President Kenyatta and Deputy President William Ruto tasked their trusted lieutenants Majority Leader Aden Duale, Kigumo MP Jamleck Kamau and Senator Charles Keter to drive registration of the new party with utmost secrecy until the party is officially unveiled. This, they achieved because up until Thursday this week, MP’s and Senators were still in the dark.
When The Standard on Saturday learnt of the new party early this week and sought more information from various leaders, majority of those we spoke to had no idea of such a move.
When contacted for comment, Duale and Keter promised to call back but they did not. Kamau would not speak further except to say, “I support the idea of forming one strong united party.” Duale would later say, while attending a function in Laikipia county, he welcomes the decision.
However, in some circles, the development has caused unease especially among some TNA MPs, apprehensive that it kills a party they have worked so hard to build.
Even though they declined to be quoted for fear of being seen as contradicting the top leadership of the coalition, the legislators claimed the move to create a single party for the coalition is an agenda driven by URP in preparation for 2017 general elections.
“We have heavily advised against this decision. It has been in the offing for quite some time now and we felt we were better off if we remained as individual parties in a coalition. You see, it is in URP’s best interest that we have one party so that after 2017, the Deputy President will inherit one party so that TNA will not have a chance to negotiate as an equal player in the coalition.
The benefit of retaining these parties is essentially for each of us to have a platform through which we can negotiate and ensure everybody is fairly represented. That has now been defeated,” said a TNA MP. Other MPs protested that the process was undertaken behind their backs.
Igembe South MP Mithika Linturi said, “It is unclear if the new Jubilee Alliance Party will gain the support of members because in my estimation over 95 per cent of them were not consulted and are not aware of the proposed merger. Political parties are about interests and what I am concerned about is whose interest is this new Jubilee party serving?”
The move taken by the Jubilee administration is characteristic of past practice where new political parties are formed a year or two to the general elections.
In 2002 polls, several political parties including Democratic Party led then by former President Mwai Kibaki, Ford Kenya under stewardship of the late Vice-President Kijana Wamalwa and Liberal Democratic Movement under Raila Odinga folded up to form National Rainbow Coalition (NARC). It was this coalition that forced an end to 24 years of Moi rule.
However, the coalition would run into problems in the run up to the 2005 constitutional referendum that culminated into sacking of Raila Odinga-led camp in government. Raila proceeded to register a new political outfit, Orange Democratic Movement (ODM).

Source : The Standard

potential to grow

No matter where you are in life today, you have potential to grow, to increase, to be strengthened and move forward. There is much more inside of you that is waiting to be discovered! Hope in the Lord, and He will renew you!

If someone lacked decency or respect

If someone lacked decency or respect, I didn't allow that person to stay in my world.

What are you prophesying over your life?

Sometimes, the enemy doesn’t have to defeat us—we defeat ourselves. Pay attention to what you’re saying. What are you prophesying over your life? Make sure you are blessing it, not cursing it.

keep that person

A RELATIONSHIP is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn't any perfect person on earth. It’s not about looking for a well off or a rich person. Having a lot of money doesn't mean that one has too much pure love. MONEY CAN’T BUY LOVE.
A relationship is about finding someone who respects you, who cares about you in anyway h/she can afford, who understands you, who is proud of having you, who loves you the way you are. Who is faithful to you, who knows how to comfort you, who knows to encourage you and who would accept the worst of you & who will go through everything without giving up on you. Such people are very rare to find these days.
If you have got one, just keep that person. Handle him or her with care, be honest & contented with that person and don’t ever thing of hurting & letting down of that special person..... heart 

Fogiven and Forgiven

A little boy visiting his grandparents and given his first slingshot. He practiced in the woods, but he could never hit his target. As he came back to Grandma's back yard, he spied her pet duck.

On an impulse he took aim and let fly. The stone hit, and the duck fell dead. The boy panicked. Desperately he hid the dead duck in the wood pile, only to look up and see his sister watching.

Mary had seen it all, but she said nothing. After lunch that day, Grandma said, "Mary, let's wash the dishes ." But Mary said, "Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen today. Didn't you, Johnny?" And she whispered to him, "Remember the duck!" So Johnny did the dishes.

Later Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing. Grandma said, "I'm sorry, but I need Mary to help make supper." Mary smiled and said, "That's all taken care of. Johnny wants to do it." Again she whispered, "Remember the duck." Johnny stayed while Mary went fishing.

After several days of Johnny doing both his chores and Mary's, finally he couldn't stand it. He confessed to Grandma that he'd killed the duck. "I know, Johnny," she said, giving him a hug. "I was standing at the window and saw the whole thing. Because I love you, I forgave you.

I wondered how long you would let Mary make a slave of you." Guilt is based on the fact that someone knows that they have violated Gods righteous law. To deal with this we confess our sins to God.

This means that we honestly agree with him that we have done wrong and we stop giving excuses. Godly sorrow moves us to make permanent changes that break that cycle of guilt and sinful behavior.

There is also another kind of guilt that is false. This is based on personal feelings rather than facts. Satan accuses forgiven sinners and causes them to live a defeated life by reminding them of former things they did or did not do. Remember the duck?

Satan wants you to think that God is disgusted with your behavior and that you are hopeless. Have you believed the enemies lies? Has guilt kept you from living a victorious life? Have you truly repented?

If you have repented then remember Romans 8:31-35 (NIV) What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?

Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?

PRACTICAL APPLICATION
If you are truly guilty then ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you. If you are falsely guilty arise above the devils accusations and remember nothing can separate you from the love of God. Don’t look at the rear view mirror but look through the windscreen into the bright future that God has for you.

7 Things to NEVER Say to Your Husband

7 Things to NEVER Say to Your Husband

One of the best things about marriage is that you can say anything and everything that you want to say to your husband. However, is it really a wise idea to say everything to your husband? Fact is that sometimes ugly truth comes out in a hurtful way if you don’t watch your mouth. Even though what you say may be logical it has to be said in a manner which is not harsh and does not hurt your husband’s feelings. Everyone has some problem or other but couples should learn the skill of speaking kindly.
Following are some samples of things you might say that can be worked on:
• You’re just like your father:
Saying this to your husband should be avoided as this may be his fear, that the worst traits of his family are exhibited by him. Instead of comparing him with his father, you can go directly to your point. If your father-in-law does not value time and is often late and you think your husband also does this, explain the importance of time management to him affectionately instead of criticizing.
• When are you going to find a new job:
First, why do you want him to find a new job? Is it the amount of time that he spends away from home that bothers you or do you think that he can do better in his career? Be clear about your thinking before you say anything that might hurt him. A man evaluates himself by the way he takes care of his family and insulting him in such a sensitive area is not a good idea. The solution is to talk about your issues with him then find solutions together that both of you can work toward.
y mother warned me you would do this:
This is the last thing he would like to hear from you. You would probably say this when you are infuriated but by saying this you are letting him know that there are others on your side. This can also feel like a breach of the sanctity of marriage, to discuss perceived failings to others. Come directly to the point you are trying to make instead of informing him what others think.

• My mother warned me you would do this:
This is the last thing he would like to hear from you. You would probably say this when you are infuriated but by saying this you are letting him know that there are others on your side. This can also feel like a breach of the sanctity of marriage, to discuss perceived failings to others. Come directly to the point you are trying to make instead of informing him what others think.
• Just leave it, I will do it myself:
This can hurt your husband in two ways: First it raises questions about your husband’s elemental need to be a provider, supporter, and capable person in the house, while conveying to your husband that his efforts are sub-par.
• “You always …….” Or “You Never…..”
Its advisable for couples to drop these phrases from their vocabulary, using them sets a negative tone, stops communication, and forces the other person to be defensive.
• Oh! We have to hang out with him again:
If he has any friend whose company is not comfortable for you, don’t force him to leave his friend, instead let him spend time with his friend and you can do something you want to do, or compromise.
• Please watch the kids. Don’t be careless, don’t do this….
A new mom is often nervous and tends to be over-cautious in terms of her child. Just be a little careful while trying to instruct your husband as he should not feel that you know everything and he knows nothing, it’s his child too.

The power of small things

We are so blinded by the big things we think we out to have, we end up missing out on the small things that God can use.God will always ask you what you have in your hand because he is the one who gave it to you and unless you recognize it then you will miss your miracle.

This one thing is for sure “nobody has nothing everybody always has something no matter how small” In John 6 all that was available were 5 loaves and 2 fish and look at what the Lord did with that once it was put in his hands.

Moses the great man of God only had a staff…..an everyday normal looking kind of stick that shepherds used but look at what it turned out to be in the hands of a mighty God!

Do not say that you have nothing….only a little money…only a little education….only a little faith, don’t you know that all you require is faith the size of a mustard seed to move a mountain?......a little a little a little.

That is all God is looking for, a little. Take stock of what you have. What do you have that you can bring to God and ask Him to bless? Your voice, skills, abilities…….what?

There my friend lays your miracle! I can’t finish here I just had another thought……..oil represents the anointing; the more it was poured into other vessels the more it kept flowing.

It still looked small from the container it was flowing from but it was a lot when you looked at the containers it was filling and it only stopped flowing when it stopped filling other containers.

The loaves and the fish looked small as they were being broken but the more they were distributed the more they multiplied.

The small you have will always remain small if it stays in your hands…the multiplication effect comes when you forget about yourself and start being a blessing to others though you may need it more….dont hold on to what you have….

pour into someone else besides don’t you remember the other widow in 1 Kings 17? When she fed the prophet first instead of herself and her son, then she never lacked!

Whispers in the Night

Whispers in the Night
I wish to highlight
The mood is right
On this spotlight
In this twilight
Hold me tight
I feel light
Do it right all night
In you I delight
You are my knight

At Times

Times
Time comes running
Opportunities comes crawling
Space does not go anywhere
Sun and moon keep moving people
Stars come when time and opportunities meet people
Chance runs when people have time and space but no opportunity
Clouds cover sun and moon,
Time when space is fed with rain
Sun shines on people with time and space
Moon lights opportunities when there is no time
Times come when moon and sun leave leave room for each other

My Dress is Not My Choice

Here is what the priest told them:
He took a good look at them and made them
sit.
Then he said something that, they might
never forget in their life.
He looked at them straight in the eyes and
said, "ladies, everything that God made
valuable in this world is well covered and
hardly to see, find or get.

1. Where do you find diamonds?
Deep down in the ground, covered and protected.
2. Where do you find pearls?
Deep down at the bottom of the ocean covered up and protected in a beautiful shell.
3. Where do you find gold?
Way down in the mine, covered over with layers of rock and to get them, you have to work hard & dig deep down to get them.
He looked at them with serious eyes and said,
"Your body is sacred & unique" You are far
more precious than gold diamonds and
pearls, and you should be covered too."
So he added that, if you keep your treasured
mineral just like gold, diamond & pearls,
deeply covered up, a reputable mining
organization with the requisite machinery will
fly down and conduct years of extensive
exploration.
First, they will contact your government
(family),
Sign professional contracts (wedding) and
Mine you professionally (legal marriage.
But if you leave your precious minerals
uncovered on the surface of the earth, you
always attract a lot of illegal miners(men who
lust over you) to come and mine you illegally.
Everybody will just pick up their crude
instruments and think they can dig you.
(propose to you anyhow & say that you are
the most prettiest lady & have sex with you)
That is Galamsey, (Prostitution, Hit & run,
etc )
Women, don't open yourself for Galamsey
operators. Keep your bodies deeply covered
so that it invite professional miners to chase
you.
Let us all encourage our daughters of Zion
(Ladies) to dress well & refrain from sexual
immorality...
I pray that women(ladies) of this generation
will rise up to expectation in Jesus mighty
name.

Reading Bible at OB Desk
i went to central police station today to report an incident and found this officer at the O.B desk reading a bible and out of curiosity i decided to test his biblical knowledge so i asked" sir,who killed abel ?"his response was..uliza corporal  ndio anahusiga na murder

CIRCUMCISER’S KNIFE

By Jacqueline Kamau

Each boy was being called by name to get into the mud, grass roofed hut by the river bed. The voice that was calling names was so deep and angry. The boy who answered was asked to get in followed by Munyitiriri, the person who will make you stand strong.

“Franjethi !!”

This is how the circumciser called my name.  At this time, correct pronunciation of the name was not important; it was my turn to get in. I was almost naked among men. Some who were brave and thirty seven others like me who were trying to be brave. Munyitiriri followed me into the room. He knew where to stand.

Inside the hut, one man was standing near a small table in the left side of the door. There were medical bottles, surgery knives, spirit, medicine, cotton wool, syringe and needles among other things on the table. The hut was dark with just one small window opposite the table. Some liquid was shining beneath the metallic bench  near the three legged stool but I could not tell what it was. Three other men who were tall, dark and strong were standing behind a metallic bench in the middle of the room. At the center of the room there was a three legged stool

“Ruta thurwari”

The man ordered in a deeper voice. My big short fell on the ground before he could say anything else.  I made two steps out of my shorts.  I was totally naked in a hut with five men. I wanted to be a man like most of my age mates. I enjoyed the early morning walk, the gifts that came before hand including one big short from my mother, a pair of jeans, belt and reebok  sport shoes. My father gave me enough threats,

“My son if I hear that u cried, I will disown you ”

“I have never cried in front of my enemies”

“These are not your enemies; these are your bridge into adulthood.”

“I will respect them father”

“If you scream that is disrespect to them. If you disrespect other people it means I did not teach you well. It means that u disrespect me. The punishment for disrespect has been is getting your own food because u abuses the hand that feeds you.”

“Father I will not fail you”

“Father you have not given me a gift. Mother gave me this short”

“That is my short, but u can have it a gift from me”

I stood there facing the man who was busy mixing some drugs. The man was short like my father. However his voice was too loud when he commanded me

“Rora nakuu”

I turned and faced the three men that I dreaded.

“I was going to be circumcised by three men?”  I wished my trembling lips could ask.

Without any notice, the man behind injected me in my ass.  The medicine froze my left bottom. He removed the needle and rubbed the medicine with a small piece of cotton wool.

“Sit down”  

He told me without any concern about my nakedness.  I wanted to remain standing and allow my ass to cool down. I struggled to sit with one ass trying to cover the tower in between my legs with my shaking thighs. Before my hot ass could be calmed down by the cold metallic bench,

“Rora naguku”

He ordered me to face him and I heard a sharp sound after he moved his seat closer to me.

    As my body was rotating, I saw the circumciser a very sharp blade that was very shinny. It gave a reflection of his dark, wrinkled face. He seemed like a ruthless middle aged man. He sat in the three leggeled stool before me.

“Tagania maguru” he said parting my legs.  The tower was more  shrunken than my courage. I wanted to run away but the three men comforted me with their powerful hands pressing hard on me.

    I saw my foreskin being cut all round, blood was spilling on the floor and a sharp pain was hitting my back with every cut. I was not allowed to cry, I was not supposed to scream but I was allowed to close my eyes and allow myself to be a man.  When the circumciser stood up , I look at munyitiriri, no single tear on my face but very watery eyes  telling him,

“ I have survived despite the pain.”

He came closer and placed his right hand on my left shoulder. I thought this was his way of saying congratulations. The circumciser turned towards me again. He was holding a needle and a string. I pushed hard to get out before he could touch my tower again.  Munyitiriri’s hand  were a reinforcement. I was held tight as the circumciser pulled the string through my skin.  The string that has given me powers to pull down any string above and below a girls waist including g-string.

The circumciser finished stitching and wiped my tower. He went back to shelves. The three masculine men walked out without saying any word. For a break I guess after I had drowned their strength with my struggles. Munyitiriri was given cotton wool and spirit. I had already received my manhood. Although I wished I could walk naked, Munyitiriri gave me my short. As a boy, I complained about its big size. As a man, I appreciate its space.

The deep voice of the circumciser,

“Ruta Thuruary” keep coming into my mind as I walk out. I should ask Munyitiriri if I should order girls to remove their pants too or should I tell them words that will make their pants fall down or should I just remove the pants and use the available space.

"The Words I Would Say"

It's Three in the morning
and I'm still awake
so I picked up a pen and a page.
And I started writing
just what I'd say
if we were face to face

I'd tell you just what you mean to me
Tell you these simple truths

Be strong in the Lord and
never give up hope.
You're gonna do great things
I already know
God's got his hand on you so
don't live life in fear
forgive and forget
but don't forget why you're here
Take your time and pray
These are the words I would say

Last time we spoke
you said you were hurting
and I felt your pain in my heart
I want you to know
that I keep on praying
Love will find you where you are

I know 'cause I've already been there
So just hear these simple truths

Be strong in the Lord and
never give up hope.
You're gonna do great things
I already know
God's got his hand on you so
don't live life in fear
forgive and forget
but don't forget why you're here
Take your time and pray
These are the words I would say

From one simple life to another
I will say
Come find peace in the Father

Be strong in the Lord and
never give up hope.
You're gonna do great things
I already know
God's got his hand on you so
don't live life in fear
forgive and forget
but don't forget why you're here
Take your time and pray
Thank God for each day
His love will find a way
These are the words I would say.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1bItzgw7OAU

THINGS YOU WILL REGRET WHEN YOU'RE 50 YEARS OLD

THINGS YOU WILL REGRET WHEN YOU'RE 50 YEARS OLD:
When younger we make various choices without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when their 50 years:-
1. "Marrying the wrong person"
When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you choose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.
2. "The opportunities you did not seize"
When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet young younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.
3. "The bridges you burned"
When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.
4. "The child you aborted"
You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.
5. "The child you rejected"
Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice
6. "The marriage you destroyed"
So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurtinguse your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you are to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.
7. "The God you disowned"
When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.
8. "The body you messed"
You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.
9. "The time you wasted"
The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.
10. "The dreams and talents you shelved"
Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to self, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a filled that doesn't fulfill you.
11. "The name you defamed"
When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.
12. "The wealth you threw away"
Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritence for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"
13. "The good love that got away"
Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"
14. "The parents you despised"
When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value of love and relationships.

she feels more sexy.

THE SEXIEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD:
A woman can know that she is sexy, her mirror can tell her everyday she is sexy, she can wear the right lingerie and outfits to make her feel sexy. But when her man looks at her with want and desire, when he lusts after her mind and hungers for her beauty, when his eyes still show interest in her, when he still randomly stares at her with wonder, when he takes a keen look at her dressing and is curious about her underwear and how her body curves and how her eyes shimmer, when it is her alone who fascinates him and makes his eyes light up; she feels more sexy.

For many men might whistle or ogle at her when she walks, many men might like and comment on her pics, many men might compliment her. But if her man barely looks at her or looks at her with dullness, when he fails to notice her special beauty, when she is left to keep reminding herself she is beautiful yet her own man cares less; she will find her sexiness to be a struggle.
Her sexiness is meant to be exclusively enjoyed by her man, he should see the value of it and bring it out. In his presence she should feel wanted and needed, in his eyes she should feel like the sexiest woman in the world!
By Dayan Masinde

what Does she Mean

 What Does she Mean
 1. "Three dots at the end of her text"
She means she enjoys talking with you and wants you to continue the conversation.
2. "How was your day?"
When a woman asks the man this, it is because she really wants to know how he is, but also wants the man to ask her how her day was. In the end, she wants the man to show interest in her day.
3. "Ok"
If she types this short word when seconds ago she was typing you long warm messages, it most likely means there is something off, wrong or hurting you have said and she wants you to notice.
4. "I miss hearing your voice"
This is an indirect way of her saying "Call me". She wonders why you've stayed for long without you calling her phone.
5. "Don't be a stranger"
She doesn't want to seem desparate but she really misses you.
6. "Dear"
With this you must be careful before concluding what she means. If a woman uses dear on other men then she is just being warm, nothing major about that. But if upon studying her you notice you are the only man she addresses by the word dear, that is a big deal. She is trying to tell you that you are special.
7. "Silent treatment"
This she will do hoping that you the man will notice and soothe her back to her talking ways. She is calling for your attention, your apology, your comfort, your care.
8. "Who was that on the phone?"
If she keeps asking you this after you hang up the phone, it's not that she suspects you or wants to manipulate you. She is trying to hint that you be open with her, be telling her who you talk to, let her in your life so that she doesn't have to ask.
9. "Are we Ok?"
These are words from a scared woman who is feeling the man closest to her heart is slipping away.
10. "A sudden fullstop"
If she is not the type to end her sentences when she chats with a fullstop but then you see a sudden fullstop after serious words when you two are chatting about something icy or tense; you've probably touched a nerve, she is mad or maybe she's trying to put you in your place, she's attempting to shift the talk into something serious.
11. "Was just saying hi"
When she calls or texts and says this, it's most likely she is reminding you to remember her. She wants more than your greeting, she wants your company too. A woman just "says hi" to a man she enjoys being with; just like a man happens to be in the neighborhood of a woman he values.
12. "We need to talk"
By the time a woman says this, what she wants you two to talk about has been on her mind for a while as she wonders how to say it. But it's reached a point she can't hold it in anymore. Whether it's a good or bad thing, what she wants to talk about is a big deal to her.
13. "What are we, where are we heading to?"
She is seeking your clarity. This woman likes you or maybe even loves you and she appreciates the time you and her spend. All she is asking for is you be the man and cement her place in your heart, allay her fears, be officially be hers. She can't propose to you so in an indirect way she is trying to make you propose to her.

Peace , Safety and Victory

Peace , Safety and Victory



If you are in Christ, FEAR NOT! God will keep in perfect peace, whose
mind is stayed on Him (ISA. 26:3). Your dwelling shall be safe (ISA.
32:18). Your travel will be safe (PS. 121:5-8). Those who hate you
will be defeated and destroyed (ISA. 41:10-13). You shall be a victor
not a victim (ISA. 54:15-17). JUST STAY IN GOD and follow Jesus. You
will never need to make excuses for God, or apologize for Him. His
word is true.

#ThingsThatWomenGoThrough

Wherever you go,no matter what the weather, just bring your own sunshine. Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboat
This is just my words in thinking
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