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Thursday, 25 November 2021

Rest and Healing

 Mt 11:28-29 Come to me all you who labour and are burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, for I am gentle and humble in spirit, and I will give you rest. Pet 5:6-7 Humble yourself under the mighty hand of God so that He will lift you up in His own time. Leave all your worries with Him for He cares for you. Numbers 6:2426 May the Lord bless you and take care of you. May the Lord be kind and gracious to you. May the Lord look upon you with favour and give you peace.  Josh 1:9 Remember that I have commanded you to be determined and confident. Do not be discouraged or afraid, for I, the Lord your God, am with you wherever you go.

Wednesday, 17 November 2021

16 TEXTS EVERY MAN WISHES HIS WOMAN/WIFE WOULD SEND HIM

 16 TEXTS EVERY MAN WISHES HIS WOMAN/WIFE WOULD SEND HIM

1. "You are looking good today"
Yes lady, men need compliments too
2. "Yesterday was amazing"
Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego
3. "I am blessed to have you"
Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued
4. "Please pray for me"
This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is
5. "What do I cook for you tonight?"
Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited
6. "I love you"
No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love
7. "Can I take you out?"
Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not everytime things should be left to him
8. "I am so wet"
Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aroused. Lady, show him that when you think of sex you think of him and are not shy about it. A man who loves you enjoys receiving breaking news of your sexuality
9. "Thank you for the phone call"
The moment after he gives you a phonecall that makes you laugh, smile or shows care; send him a text that demonstrates your gratitude
10. "I will be late, I'll make it up to you"
Some women tend to delay when going on a date or event. Don't keep him waiting and expect him to undersrand because he is your man. Inform him you will be late
11. "I am wearing your favourite underwear"
Tell him when you are wearing his favourite underwear, that black thong that he likes, that bra he likes to unstrap. Let him know when you are not wearing any underwear, no bra, when your nipples get hard. This playful and intimate info makes his blood run
12. "Are you OK?"
Many women want the man to care and ask how she is but don't do the same for the man. Find out how your man is, how his day has gone. Many men are stresssed in need of their woman/wife to show concern. So many men have issues and need a safe place to vent
13. "You are a good man"
In a world where women talk badly about men and have given up on men, this is the greatest compliment. If you have a good man, appreciate him. Him being a good man doesn't mean he is perfect, but the more you praise him, the better he will become, and the more effort he will put
14. "I can't wait for us to leave this place and be alone with you"
When you are both in the same venue full of people, send him this text. He will read it, smile, look at you and your eyes meet with intense passion. Show him you look forward to private moments with him
15. "God bless your day, you are blessed"
As his woman/wife, even without him asking; bless his day. Send him a message when he is at work; blessing him, calling him blessed. Your words are powerful and shape him
16. "You are an amazing father"
He is there, doing the best he can for your child/children; thank him and constantly recognize his greatness, and greatness will never leave him
© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

Monday, 15 November 2021

Powerful Bible verses

 Lord, we pray for these blessings over our children, today, and every day…

Belief – “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved – you and your household.” Acts 16:31

Blessing – “The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you, the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26

Courage – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9

Contentment – “Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5

Encouragement – “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

Endurance – “Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus…” Hebrews 12:1-2

Faithfulness – “Only fear the Lord and serve him faithfully with all your heart. For consider what great things he has done for you.” 1 Sam. 12:24

Favor – "For you bless the righteous, O Lord; you cover him with favor as with a shield." Psalm 5:12

Forgiveness – “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

Fruitfulness – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23

Generosity – “They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.” 1 Timothy 6:18-19

Godly Relationships – “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” Prov. 13:20

Grace – “May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.” 2 Corinthians 13:14

Health – “Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.” 3 John 1:2

Honesty – “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32

Hope – “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31

Humility – “Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:3-4

Integrity – “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.” Proverbs 10:9

Joy – “…for the joy of the LORD is your strength." Nehemiah 8:10

Kindness – “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

Love – “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God.” 1 John 3:1

Obedience – “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” Ephesians 6:1

Patience – “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” James 1:19

Peace – “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” Isaiah 26:3

Protection – "He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.  I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.” He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart...He will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways." Psalm 91:1-2, 4, 11

Provision – “And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19

Purity – “How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word.” Psalm 119:9

Purpose – “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

Respect – “Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.” 1 Peter 2:17

Safety - "The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore." Psalm 121:8

Salvation - “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

Self-Control – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7

Servant Heart – “For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.” Galatians 5:13

Strength – “Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.” Ephesians 6:10-11

Submission – “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James 4:7

Thankfulness – “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17

Trust – “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6

Value – “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” Ephesians 2:9

Wisdom – “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…” Proverbs 9:10

Wise Instruction – “All your sons will be taught by the Lord, and great will be your children’s peace.” Isaiah 54:13

Sunday, 17 October 2021

Cum Home early for some Fun

 Cum Home early for some Fun 

10 REASONS WHY YOUR WIFE WANTS YOU HOME EARLY

1. The night is the most intimate time. Who you give your night to, is your priority
2. She wants your children to bond with you before they sleep
3. You are the King of the house. Why be absent yet your presence at home is needed as head of the home?
4. She wants to catch up with you and know how each other's day has been before she gets tired and sleep
5. To make love to you. At night is when she often feels horny, touchy, sensual and in need of attention
6. To end the day right. She doesn't feel OK sleeping without sufficiently talking with you
7. Because your home is not a lodge that you go to late in the night just to sleep. Come home early so that you enjoy your family
8. To pray with you. Prayer needs to be allocated to time
9. To eat with you and the family
10. To know you are OK. You are a grown man but she'll feel safe when you are home, lying on her thighs or bosom, cuddling with her

Borrowed from © Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech

Friday, 15 October 2021

Women Needed in the High-level corporate leadership

Women Needed in the High-level corporate leadership

Women’s representation in high-level corporate leadership in Africa remains critically low.

A 2015 research by the African Development Bank (AFD) indicates that, of the 12 African countries surveyed, Kenya scored the highest at 19.8% representation with South Africa at 17.4% and Botswana at 16.9%.

Kenya’s good performance, relative to its neighbors, can be attributed to affirmative action and progressive public sector policies. The Constitution of Kenya requires a one-third gender representation in Government and state corporations.

As a key vector of economic activity, the private sector has an opportunity and responsibility to create a larger impact towards gender equality and women empowerment within their sphere of influence. Though the one – third rule does not apply to the private sector, there are a number of positive initiatives geared towards realizing diversity in boards.

As the first woman chairperson of the Kenya Association of Manufacturers (KAM) since its establishment in 1959, I recognize the importance of women’s participation in driving industrial transformation for job creation and inclusive economic growth. KAM will be forming a Women in Manufacturing platform that seeks to grow, challenge and mentor women owned industries to scale up and realize their potential.

There is indeed great potential for women-run industries to create productive jobs and grow value chains in the country. The platform will look at increasing the value and capacity of these businesses through technical assistance, facilitating access to finance and mentorship from KAM’s larger database where they can also seek solutions to scale up their industries through business-to-business linkages.

The Capital Markets Authority on its end has developed Guidelines on Corporate Governance Practices by public listed companies which require Boards to institute policies that ensure the achievement of diversity- including gender- in its composition.

The Nairobi Securities Exchange (NSE) has set ambitious targets to achieve at least a third female board representation in Kenya’s 65 listed companies by 2020. As a signatory to the United Nations Women’s Empowerment Principles (WEPs), NSE seeks to establish high-level corporate leadership for gender equality.

Why do we need more women in boards?

Having women on boards simply makes good business sense. Study after study confirms this notion. According to a Catalyst report, companies with at least one woman director had better share price performance and Return on Equity, and companies with more than one woman on the board return 3.7% a year over those with none. Furthermore, unleashing the full potential of women and girls by empowering them to be equal members of society has a multiplier effect on families, businesses, communities, and nations and is essential to achieving sustainable development.

Women in leadership have also been known to develop their employees career through counseling, on-the-job coaching, outside classes, dedicated feedback, helping employees set goals and better themselves professionally. Highly developed employees have a greater sense of purpose and satisfaction, are more loyal and work hard, resulting to more productivity and a low employee turnover in the long run. Much as they take time to develop their employees, women also take time to develop their skills, to improve job performance, this resonates well with their employees as they lead by example, inspiring productivity.

Women also take more initiative compared to their male counterparts. There is a stereotype that states that women need to work twice as much, make no mistakes and constantly demonstrate their competence. Whether conscious to that stereotype or not, women do take more initiative and are more-result oriented in the process.

In an ever dynamic world, we need leaders who embrace new methods, new technologies and new ways of thinking in order to stay on top of current trends and improve the way of doing business.

As a signatory to the United Nations Global Compact, I subscribe to the first of its Women’s Empowerment principles to establish high-level corporate leadership for gender equality. Women’s inclusion will drive development, it will fast track the achievement of the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) and other national economic and development plans. I look forward to the day companies will have policies, programs and implementation plans that are all inclusive.

Urgent: Close the Gender Gap

Urgent:  Close the Gender Gap 

As the world marks International Women's Day Nation Newsplex takes stock of sectors where women have made progress in the struggle for equality in leadership and examines the gaps that remain.

Below are facts on the status of women in leadership in Kenya in different sectors sourced from the National Assembly, World Economic Forum, Kenya National Bureau of Statistics, Nairobi Securities Exchange, the Engineers Board of Kenya and Kenya Medical Practitioners, Kenya Civil Aviation Authority, World and Dentists Council.

C-suite

Past global studies have found that there is a positive relationship between diversity (age, gender, race, etc.) in company leadership and management, and performance. Despite this revelation, it is lonely in the C-suite for women in Kenya with overall representation in boards and senior executive posts tipped in favour of men.

Only eight of 63 chief executive officers or managing directors of companies listed on the Nairobi Securities Exchange are women. An even smaller number, four, chair the board of directors in the firms.

Past global studies have found that there is a positive relationship between diversity (age, gender, race, etc.) in company leadership and management and performance.

Stem

Women are grossly under-represented in science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM) careers despite solid gains in the share of females graduating from university in the fields.

Only one in three doctors is a woman. Female doctors constitute a fifth of specialist doctors, e.g. cardiologists, neurosurgeons and gynaecologists.

There are 167 registered consulting and professional engineers who are women compared to 2,418 men.

Just three per cent of over 800 aircraft maintenance engineers are women.

One in 10 pilots in Kenya is a woman (air transport, commercial private and student).

Judiciary

Women judges are well represented in the magistrates' courts but they are in the minority in the superior courts.

Over half (269 out of 503) of magistrates are women. However, a deeper look at the figures reveal that pendulum swings in the opposite direction among chief and senior magistrates with 43 per cent (58 out of 135) of them being women.

Two out of the seven Supreme Court judges (before former Chief Justice David Maraga retired) were women. There are 12 male and seven female judges in the Court of Appeal while there are 42 male judges compared to 40 female judges in the High Court.

Executive

Kenya has met the two-thirds gender rule at the Cabinet level but falls short at the principal secretary rank.

Seven out of 21 cabinet secretaries are women in conformity with the two-thirds gender rule while just a fifth of principal secretaries are women.

In the counties two out of 46 governors (Nairobi has no governor) are women.

Legislature

On September 21 last year, Chief Justice David Maraga advised President Uhuru Kenyatta to dissolve Parliament because neither of the national legislative houses had enough women lawmakers. The High Court soon after suspended the advisory until a full hearing on the case.

Countries with a greater proportion of women as top decision-makers in legislatures have lower levels of income inequality, according to Women Deliver, an international gender equality advocacy organisation.

Twenty-one out of 67 senators are women, which is just short of the two-thirds gender rule. Only three of the women were elected to the senate while 18 were nominated

One in five members of parliament in Kenya is a woman.

Although the county assemblies meet the gender parity law, mostly through nominations of women, just one of 47 county assembly majority leaders is a woman while just four women are speakers.

Academia

Although the share of women (47 per cent) in wage employment in the education sector is almost the same as that of men (53 per cent), they are under-represented in the top ranks of university leadership.

Nine out of 73 public and private universities and university constituent colleges vice chancellors and principals are women.

About 287 female academic university staff were professors or associate professors compared to 1,313 males in 2018. At the same time one in three universities academic staff with a PhD in Kenya is a woman.

Gender gap

Last year Kenya ranked 109 out of 153 countries in in the Global Gender Gap index 2020. The country has almost closed 67 per cent of its overall gender gap.

Wednesday, 28 July 2021

From Broke to wealthy

 

From Broke to wealthy

Broke means,  if you lost your primary

source of income today, you wouldn't be

able to maintain the lifestyle you have

become accustomed to because you have no

assets to rely on.                                                                                                                                    Active income is the income you get from

services rendered, it is usually your income

from your job or business.

Passive income in simple terms is money

that you make while you are sleeping. It is

the income you get regularly from

investments you've already made.

Financial Freedom: When passive income exceeds your expenses.

Wealthy is about how much of your income you are able to keep and convert into assets that can provide you with an income in the future.

wealthy is not how much we earn but how we can systematically use a proportion of the income we earn to build assets that pay us over time

Thursday, 13 May 2021

HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN

 HOW TO TOUCH A WOMAN:


A woman loves to be touched by her man, sensations of love hidden under her skin waiting for him to awaken them.


1. Gently squeeze the palm of her hand when she is scared, it comforts her


2. Gentle squeeze and rub her back when you hug her tight, it makes her feel safe


3. Grab her bum with no apologies, it makes her feel wanted and desired by you, her man


4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family, it makes her feel secure


5. Gentle rub her hand when she is worrying or has received some bad news, it shows her you care


6. Hold her back when she is in the kitchen cooking and her hands are tied as you tell her how much she means to you, it makes her hardwork worth it


7. Place your hand between or on her breasts as you both sleep, it makes her feel comfortable and warm with you


8. Touch her tummy when she's pregnant, it tells her she is not alone, daddy is there with her


9. Rub her hips down when she is dressing up or when she is relaxing in bed, it makes her feel sexy


10. Hold her hands when you two are praying, it shows unity before God


11. Sneak from behind and wrap your arms around her, it makes her feel special


12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired, it calms her down


13. Stroke gently her back, tracing her spine, it releases sweet shivers all over her body


14. Rub her feet when she's had a long day, it tells her you are serious when you say you will take care of her


15. Oil her body, her back, her elbows, her knees sometimes. Love on the body that you find sexy


16. Hold her face, her neck as you kiss her, it melts and nicely weakens her. She loves to surrender to your masculine love


17. Play with her fingers as you cuddle and talk, it tells her you're paying attention


© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND

 HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND

1. Harden his penis, don't make his life hard
2. Praise him, don't praise other men
3. Cover his shame, don't cover up your mistakes
4. Hide in his arms, don't hide your sweet vagina from him
5.Buy him an expensive cologne, don't buy into the cheap rumors being spread about him
6. Lengthen the size of his penis as you arouse it erect from its relaxed size, don't lengthen his sorrows
7. Strengthen his character, don't strengthen his enemies by attacking him
8. Rub your butt on him, don't rub his failures to his face when he makes a mess
9. Let him marvel at the earings dangling from your pierced ears, don't pierce his heart
10. Shout out his goodness for the world to hear, don't shout at him
11. Push his penis deeper inside you when making love, don't push him away
12. Send him sweet messages, don't send gossip about him to your girlfriends
13. Give birth to his baby, don't order him around like a baby
14. Feed him good food, don't feed him lies
15. Empty his burden, don't empty his wallet
16. Address his fears, don't undress for another man
17. Build him up, don't build a wall between you and him
18. Ask him how his day has been, don't ask for things you know he can't currently give
19. Record his achievements, don't keep a record of his wrongs
20. Set a loving mood at home, don't become draining and moody
21. Be his number one fan, not his harshest critic
22. Challenge him to grow, don't challenge his position as head of the home


For our husbands i had to borrow this one from
© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde