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Friday, 27 November 2020

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

 BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES:


1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results


2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing


3. Don't carry work to bed


4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred


5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two


6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love


7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters


8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up


9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger


10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory


11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?


12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine


13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation


14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)


15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket


16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night


17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare


18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss


19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up


20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed

Monday, 23 November 2020

How much ??? Value work not cost

 A customer asked me how much for 2 days wedding photography package 

𝗠𝗲:  Approximately 120,000Ksh  πŸ˜Š


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Why is it too expensive? all i need is an album and a video


𝗠𝗲: How much do you think it would cost you?


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: 45,000Ksh maximum... It's just easy, right?! all you have to do is take  some pictures .


𝗠𝗲: hmm okay, maybe you can do it yourself.


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: but I don't know how...πŸ˜‚


𝗠𝗲: For 45,000Ksh I'll teach you, with that, you can save approximately 75,000Ksh You'll get the knowledge that you'll need. πŸ˜‰


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Okay, I'm fine with that. 😁


𝗠𝗲: But to get started: We need some things first:

a professional DSLR $2400 

DSLR lens  $1600

light setup $400

other camera accessories $200


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Oh my.😣 But I don't have all these photography equipments . Do I need to buy all of that? I just only need 1 wedding album n a video 😐


𝗠𝗲: ohh!! sorry i totally forgot about videography equipments .. those things will cost you extra πŸ™‚


π—–π˜‚π˜€π˜π—Όπ—Ίπ—²π—Ώ: Really? what?😲.. 🀯


When you pay for a job, you pay not only for the work materials, but also:

- Knowledge

- Experience

- Study

- Tools

- Services

- Time to go

- punctuality

- Accountability

- Accuracy

- Guaranteed

- Sacrifices

- Safety and security

No one can denigrate other people's work by judging prices.

Only by knowing all the elements necessary for the production of a certain work can you estimate the actual cost.


#CopyPasteAndPost

Friday, 20 November 2020

Trojan Horse

 BEWARE OF THE TROJAN HORSE!


Ever had of the saying, “Beware of Greeks bearing gifts?”


It was the tenth year and the war against the Greeks by the Trojans who lived in Troy, was still raging on. In that year, Odysseus deviced a way of ending the war once and for all.


Troy was fortified, and it had to take a great scheme to pull down it’s walls and destroy it’s fighters. So the Greeks, led by Odysseus, built a dummy gigantic wooden horse and left it on its wheels outside the gates of the city of Troy.


He wanted to deceive the Trojans and make them believe that the Greeks had lost their nerves, surrendered, and had returned back to Greece.When dawn broke, the Trojans were surprised that they were not surrounded by the Greek army, only a wooden horse.


They indeed believed that the Greeks had gone and had left this horse as a gift to their gods.


They wheeled the wooden horse into their city and started revelry to celebrate the end of the war. However, unknown to the Trojans, the horse was hollow, and it hid few Greek warriors, Odysseus included.


The horse was in the gates, the City of Troy was already compromised. Now that they were inside, Odysseus and his men went out of the dummy horse and annihilated the unsuspecting guards.


Then they opened the city gates and allowed the entire Greek army, who were hiding some miles away, to enter the city. The Trojans were taken by surprise.


They were unprepared for war. They were unarmed, unaware, totally caught off guard. Their army was destroyed, the City was taken captive and all the Trojans were slain.


Beware of the Trojan Horse.


The Trojan horse was the downfall of the City of Troy.


Beware of the “gifts” the enemy carries. They are not gifts, but Kryptonites, ready to detonate you as soon as you let your guards down.


See, no one is immune to SEXUAL immorality, no one. The Bible says, take heed, let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. [1 Corinthians 10:12]


We wage war everyday against our flesh and it’s not easy. You may think you are fortified, but just like Odysseus to the Trojans, the devil has schemes and plans, read to blow up the temple of the Holy Spirit- You!


He’s cunning and sin is deceitful. For one man, it has an arrow, for another, a dart, and for another a spear. Do not underestimate the devil, but do not overestimate him too _he’s already defeated.


That said, we shouldn’t be too casual to think that we are immune. The Bible says that we should stand firm, putting on the full armour of the Lord. Stand firm, gird your loins, be strong and vigilant. Be of good courage.


Listen, the Bible say in 1st Corinthians 10:13, that there’s no, temptation regardless of its source, that has overtaken or enticed us, that is not common to human experience, nor is any temptation unusual or beyond human resistance.


God is faithful, to His word—He is compassionate and trustworthy, and He will not let us be tempted beyond our ability to resist. Along with the temptation He has in the past and now, provides the WAY OUT as well, so that we will be able to endure it without yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy.


What is the Trojan Horse you are wheeling into your life? What is the Trojan Horse you are allowing into your bulwark?


The gift is not real!


There’s a WAY OUT that the Lord has provided in the mess around you! There’s a WAY OUT, of what the devil cheaply pawns as “good and satisfying.”


Way out, cut that conversation down. 

Way out, cut that relationship, however hard, let it go. Way out, uproot the little seedlings of pornography, by literally walking away from that laptop or TV. 

Way out, unplug from social media till you reset back. Way out, change what you watch or listen to or read.


The battle of sexual purity, not only needs prayers, but a physical engagement with your self.


Way out, be accountable to someone who will not sooth you into sinning, nor stifle your growth. 

Way out, learn the discipline of saying NO! 

Way out, go for deliverance from soul ties and past relationships that you could be still dragging over in your heart.


God knows that all the SEX around hasn’t helped us to become better drivers or conversationalists. Our deepest needs remain untouched, and by far, unknown. Emojis have become a way of life. Winky face. Laughing until I am crying.


What I am saying? Am shouting this loud. The WORD OF THE LORD is Life. The Bible says that He has given us everything, to be able to live a godly life. Life or death, the choice is ours. Choose life. Choose to live out loud for Christ. Choose to live radically, countercultural for Christ.


Beware of the Trojan Horses around! Do not pull them in!


#marriageworks

#Godspeed